Its been 2 months+ though.. Either its realli hard to forget or just doesnt wanna forget.. Well, i can partly understand ur feeling too~ I got mine from d net(eventhough) she stay near =3 But we never came out~ was happened after SPM.. It just 2 months and half, yet it hardly can let go~ until recently…~ Its been 2 months half for the relationship~ i used 3 years+ to erase completely =) U know what i mean "Completely" btw~ its what u seek for now too n.n" Not to think is hard, To think is not easy, So juz make it simple.. its just reality =) It happened, and its past~ U are living, in the present~ What ya need to think, is for future~ Dont think, something dragged u to past~ and never able to move forward~
P/S : dunno where did those words come out from my mind suddenly.. >w<" Hope that works for u lar =D Coz.. its juz the beginning of the 2009~
And.. that "fire" incident i mentioned before.. i din see that owner =x Maybe got heart atk >.<" Since he kinda old also~
Daniel tong – u can put us as “caring” or “others” as u may think =3 Well.. its a comment towards the topic she made.. of coz we response based on whatever she writes ma.. Abo… still tambah api meh? =3
heyx..sorry.. i m just in to greet u happy 2009.. but seem like u have a emo post here.. 执着是没有错,只是要问问看值得吗? 孤单还是不孤单都是看你自己怎样看待而已.. 可能是某某原因,所以你才有一些错觉吧.. 爱情来了,我想恋爱中的每一个人的双眼一定是被蒙住了. 时间到了你就知道,其实啊,真正的幸福就在你手上咯.
January 3rd, 2009 at 4:29 pm
你执著了…..
愿时间可以为你冲淡一切吧~~~
January 3rd, 2009 at 5:34 pm
i dontknow you much… but… why you are so emo?
izzit really so lonely therE?
January 3rd, 2009 at 5:47 pm
orge – 执着有错吗?
Black heart – lol. reminiscing over the past?
January 3rd, 2009 at 6:08 pm
cant alwasy emo ma.. now is aim future.. xp
January 3rd, 2009 at 6:15 pm
十七岁年华, 绝对有执着的权利
只是有天你学会放开了, 回头想想,
也许回发觉原来自己当时是多么的傻.
人生必上的一课.. 加油..
January 3rd, 2009 at 8:18 pm
人的一生會遇上的四個人
人生就是為了找尋愛的過程,
每個人的人生都要找到四個人
第一個是自己,
第二個是你最愛的人,
第三個是最愛你的人,
第四個是共度一生的人.
首先會遇到你最愛的人,然後體會到愛的感覺;
因為了解被愛的感覺,所以才能發現最愛你的人;
當你經歷過愛人與被愛,學會了愛,才會知道什麼是你需要的,
也才會找到最適合你,能夠相處一輩子的人。
但很悲哀的,在現實生活中,這三個人通常不是同一個人;
你最愛的,往往沒有選擇你;
最愛你的,往往不是你最愛的;
而最長久的,偏偏不是你最愛也不是最愛你的,
只是在最適合的時間出現的那個人。
你,會是別人生命中的第幾個人呢?
沒有人是故意要變心的,他愛你的時候是真的愛你,
可是他不愛你的時候也是真的不愛你了,
他愛你的時候沒有辦法假裝不愛你;
同樣的,他不愛你的時候也沒有辦法假裝愛你 。
當一個人不愛你要離開你,
你要問自己還愛不愛他,
如果你也不愛他了,千萬別為了可憐的自尊而不肯離開;
如果你還愛他,你應該會希望他過得幸福快樂,
希望他跟真正愛的人在一起,絕不會阻止,
你要是阻止他得到真正的幸福,就表示你已經不愛他了,
而如果你不愛他,你又有什麼資格指責他變心呢?
愛不是佔有,
你喜歡月亮,不可能把月亮拿下來放在臉盆裡,
但月亮的光芒仍可照進你的房間。
換句話說,你愛一個人,也可以用另一種方式擁有,
讓愛人成為生命裡的永恆回憶,
如果你真愛一個人,就要愛他原來的樣子─愛他的好,也愛他的壞:
愛他的優點,也愛他的缺點,
絕不能因為愛他,就希望他變成自己所希望的樣子,
萬一變不成就不愛他了。
真正愛一個人是無法說出原因的,
你只知道無論何時何地、心情好壞,你都希望這個人陪著你;
真正的感情是兩人能在最艱苦中相守,也就是沒有絲毫要求。
畢竟,感情必須付出,而不是只想獲得;
分開是一種必然的考驗,
如果你們感情不夠穩固,只好認輸,
真愛是不會變成怨恨的。
兩人在談情說愛的時候,
最喜歡叫對方發誓,許下承諾我們為什麼要對方發誓,
就是因為我們不相信對方,我們根本不相信情人,
而這些山盟海誓又很不切實際:
海枯石爛、地老天荒,都不能改變我對你的愛!
明知道海不會枯、石不會爛、地不會老、天不會荒;
就算會,也活不到那時候。
許下諾言的時候千萬注意,不要許下可以實現的諾言,
最好是承諾做不到的事,
反正做不到的,隨便說說也不要緊,
請記住: “不可能實現的諾言最動人”
在愛情裡,說的是一套,做的是另一套;
講的人不相信,聽的人也不相信。
你呢?找到了第幾個?
茫茫人海中,你遇見了誰?誰又遇見了你?
January 3rd, 2009 at 9:25 pm
Be happy alright! 2009 is a new year . believe that , the greater things have yet to come! ;D
January 3rd, 2009 at 10:34 pm
Its been 2 months+ though..
Either its realli hard to forget or just doesnt wanna forget..
Well, i can partly understand ur feeling too~
I got mine from d net(eventhough) she stay near =3 But we never came out~ was happened after SPM..
It just 2 months and half, yet it hardly can let go~ until recently…~
Its been 2 months half for the relationship~ i used 3 years+ to erase completely =)
U know what i mean "Completely" btw~ its what u seek for now too n.n"
Not to think is hard,
To think is not easy,
So juz make it simple.. its just reality =)
It happened, and its past~
U are living, in the present~
What ya need to think, is for future~
Dont think, something dragged u to past~ and never able to move forward~
P/S : dunno where did those words come out from my mind suddenly.. >w<"
Hope that works for u lar =D
Coz.. its juz the beginning of the 2009~
And.. that "fire" incident i mentioned before.. i din see that owner =x Maybe got heart atk >.<" Since he kinda old also~
Yao~
January 3rd, 2009 at 10:43 pm
我找到第五个。。。
在别人的blog reply字数还多过blogger post的人。。。
January 3rd, 2009 at 11:06 pm
执著没错,
可是因为执著而忽视了身边的美好,
那你不觉得对不起自己吗?
因为一个人曾经的好,
而放弃别人将来的好,
这样值得吗?
一段感情的结束就让它结束,
就算重新在一起,
会觉得开心吗?
或许你会觉得开心,
但这可能只是你单方面的想法,
另一方的感受呢?
过去就让它过去吧,
一段感情的结束最珍贵的是彼此相爱的回忆,
可是因为这段回忆而使你放弃将来,
那这不是你美好的回忆,
而是你的包袱,
为什么不尝试把包袱放下呢?
January 4th, 2009 at 1:12 am
我也来写一写…
执著, 会在你第二个生日时,而忘了.
努力温习的从前,在第三次国庆日,而忘了.
何谓孤单,在你大学的第四年,而忘了.
要怎样去爱一个不该爱的人,在第五年上班的第一天,而忘了.
他是谁, 在第六个情人节里,你忘了…
只因为… 你爱上我了…
January 4th, 2009 at 10:43 am
恋爱并不孤单,
寂寞是失去恋爱的开始。
也许,
恋爱并不寂寞,
孤单是当恋爱开始落空的时候。
被绑住的心,再怎么飞,也飞不高,
再美的天空,飞高一点,就是天堂,
天堂或美丽天空也许是一线之差,
也许决定了,机会仍然就错过了。
January 4th, 2009 at 11:59 am
在生命里程碑,就如吃西餐…
有头盘,主菜,和甜品…
爱情只不过是一道甜品,但是你偏吃甜品而忘记还有有头盘,和主菜…
正如人生,还有亲情,友情,学业…
过去的感情是会不在回头了,一切都让步它走吧…
执著是没错的,过量执著就是病态…
放下这个包袱,你就会看到世界的美好…
当初他没选你是他的傻,所以你要活得比他更好…
证明给他看没选你是他的笨…
时间就是康复的良药…
不要放弃自己…
加油…
January 4th, 2009 at 5:13 pm
愛情是否令人盲目?
但願愛情永遠是令人最可望的..
祝福你…
January 5th, 2009 at 12:05 am
wow.. suddenly all here become so romantic ?
haha…
January 5th, 2009 at 3:40 am
Daniel tong – u can put us as “caring” or “others” as u may think =3
Well.. its a comment towards the topic she made.. of coz we response based on whatever she writes ma..
Abo… still tambah api meh? =3
January 5th, 2009 at 10:46 am
heyx..sorry.. i m just in to greet u happy 2009..
but seem like u have a emo post here..
执着是没有错,只是要问问看值得吗?
孤单还是不孤单都是看你自己怎样看待而已..
可能是某某原因,所以你才有一些错觉吧..
爱情来了,我想恋爱中的每一个人的双眼一定是被蒙住了.
时间到了你就知道,其实啊,真正的幸福就在你手上咯.
January 5th, 2009 at 1:10 pm
hi YaoYao – ok ok.. of coz we response to watever she write… i didn’t mean others..
January 5th, 2009 at 5:21 pm
Honey!
new bloggg! relink!
ooikylie.blogspot.com
January 6th, 2009 at 11:38 am
Sorry, banana for a Chinese here. LOL! Can understand but can’t read.
And yes, I’m the one who sent you your photos.
p.s: Looking forward to do more of you.
January 6th, 2009 at 10:23 pm
你们的文笔好好哦! =) & thanks for all the comments. appreciated.
kylie – link u up soon yea.
danny – lol. I forgotten which one d. but I look fugly in most of the photo.
January 6th, 2009 at 11:51 pm
T_T Hmm…probably it was the angle or the uniform.
Nevermind, I’ll make sure it’ll be much better the next time.
Sorry about that.
January 8th, 2009 at 2:42 am
Erm…the pic of this blog…i saw at my ex blog too…but she is using for 倔强 instead of yours…hehe
:*)