I have been questioning myself all the time, why are you so unhealthy even though I have been treating you so well? I really thought I have been treating you very well.
I used to blow dry you every time to make sure you wouldn’t look damp and flat. But, people told me that over drying ones hair causes the strands to dry-out and then break.
From then, I don’t blow dry you anymore. I towel dry you instead. I admit I have been very rough way when I towel dry you, because it saves lots of time.
& then, I get to know that towel drying ones hair can cause damage, more so when done in a rough, vigorous manner. It causes friction, breakage and frizzy hair. Ahhhh.
And so, I started to have a habit to comb you a few times before I towel dry you, because the drying process will be so much easier and less messy. I thought you wouldn’t like getting all tangled up, I thought, I must be a genius!
But, I later on got to know that excessive brushing or combing ones hair right out of the shower can seriously damage your hair. Hair is most vulnerable to breaks and tears when wet. Oh, FML.
I am really sorry, I didn’t know I have put you in so much pain.
but, still, i get really frustrated when you looks so frizzy.
I thought it would be better for me and you if I got you all tied up.
Cause you wouldn’t need to say good bye to your friends due to the excessive breakage, and I will look good with you being so. Then again, they told tight braids or pony tails can damage hair, sometimes irreversibly. Buns, in particular, put strands of hair through considerable contortions and are not recommended for fragile or brittle hair. In addition to creating split, frayed ends and irregular broken areas, it pulls painfully on the scalp, causing redness and sensitivity.
I feel bad, but it’s still okay, because I did not make you a bun.
sadly, the spilt end getting more and more serious.
& so, I thought I shall give you your freedom by not tying you all up anymore.
I dyed my hair one tone darker, straightened it every single time before I go out, just because I am desperate to achieve a healthier looking hair. :(
But, without me realize I have make things worse. Hair dyes causes huge damage to you, you become rougher, frizzier and more fragile than before. Straightening you too had actually burn you making you drier than ever.
I am really sorry, but, I don’t know what can I do anymore.
It saddened me when the canteen’s auntie said:”eh, lenglui, I think you should go for a hair cut, tsk tsk tsk, look at the ugly split end.”
I was totally speechless. T_T
I still remember how silky smooth you used to be, sigh. FML.
If only, I know these deadly sins earlier, I would treat you better.
no cheers today, I am very much depressed. Please tell me I am not the only one commiting these deadly sins. Aren’t these “sins” what we girls usually do to our hair every single day? :(